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The book of delights
2019
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Poet Gay (Catalog of Unabashed Gratitude) forays into prose with this collection of stirring, thought-provoking "essayettes" on the ways and means of delight. Spanning a year between Gay's 42nd and 43rd birthdays, the 102 pieces-each one dated-cover widely varied subject matter, including high-fiving strangers, nicknames, the movie Ghost, trains, and much more. "I am ultimately interested in joy," Gay declares, adding, "I am curious about the relationship between pleasure and delight." While "the pleasant, the delightful, are not universal," he also hypothesizes that "delight grows as we share it." But cataloguing delight isn't his sole motivation; from the opening entry, Gay challenges popular conceptions of masculinity, blackness, and the kinds of writing expected of black male authors, making explicit in one piece that for an African-American writer to focus on delight runs counter to a culture more accustomed to the "commodification of black suffering." Throughout, Gay presents himself as fallibly human rather than authoritative, capable of profundity and banality alike. One's reception of his work will depend on personal temperament; readers may be convinced of Gay's delight without necessarily sharing it. Nonetheless, he is a remarkable expositor of the positive, and his writings serve as reminders "of something deeply good in us." (Feb.) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.
Booklist Review
On his forty-second birthday, poet Gay (Catalog of Unabashed Gratitude, 2015) began a yearlong project to write, every day, about something that delighted him. The 100 of these ""essayettes"" shared here in chronological order and which are most delightfully read that way consider things as contained as a high five from a stranger and concepts as vast as existence itself. The longhand in which Gay first wrote these (one of the project's rules) seems to uncurl on the typed page, in winding meanders and meaningful digressions that share a life-spanning spectrum of emotions and experiences. Gay discovers that his delights begin to compound and embed in one another. Stacking delights, saving up several to write about another day, is technically against the rules, but he does it anyway; and occasionally blowing off the project is its own delight. While Gay's delights embrace the darkness of racism and death, en masse they share a profound capacity for joy and belief in humankind. This stunning self-portrait of a gardener, a teacher, and a keen observer of life is sure to inspire.--Annie Bostrom Copyright 2018 Booklist
Kirkus Review
A collection of affirmations, noncloying and often provocative, about the things that make justice worth fighting for and life worth living.Gaya poet whose last book, the winner of the National Book Critics Circle Award, bears the semantically aligned title Catalog of Unabashed Gratitude (2015)is fully aware that all is not well in the world: "Racism is often on my mind," he writes by way of example. But then, he adds, so are pop music, books, gardening, and simple acts of kindness, all of which simple pleasures he chronicles in the "essayettes" that make up this engaging book. There is much to take delight in, beginning with the miraculous accident of birth, his parents, he writes, a "black man, white woman, the year of Loving v. Virginia, on a stolen island in the Pacific, a staging ground for American expansion and domination." As that brief passage makes clear, this is not a saccharine kind of delight-making but instead an exercise in extracting the good from the difficult and ugly. Sometimes this is a touch obvious: There's delight of a kind to be found in the odd beauty of a praying mantis, but perhaps not when the mantis "is holding in its spiky mitts a large dragonfly, which buzzed and sputtered, its big translucent wings gleaming as the mantis ate its head." Ah, well, the big ones sometimes eat the little ones, and sometimes we're left with holes in our heads, an idiom that Gay finds interesting if also sad: "that usage of the simile implies that a hole in the head, administered by oneself, might be a reasonable response." No, the reasonable response is, as Gay variously enumerates, to resist, enjoy such miracles as we can, revel in oddities such as the "onomatopoeicness of jenky," eat a pawpaw whenever the chance to do so arises, water our gardens, and even throw up an enthusiastic clawed-finger air quote from time to time, just because we can.An altogether charming and, yes, delightful book. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
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As Heard on NPR's This American Life: The New York Times bestselling book of essays celebrating ordinary delights in the world around us by one of America's most original and observant writers, award-winning poet Ross Gay. Pre-order The Book of (More) Delights now , too!



"Ross Gay's eye lands upon wonder at every turn, bolstering my belief in the countless small miracles that surround us." --Tracy K. Smith, Pulitzer Prize winner and U.S. Poet Laureate



The winner of the NBCC Award for Poetry offers up a spirited collection of short lyrical essays, written daily over a tumultuous year, reminding us of the purpose and pleasure of praising, extolling, and celebrating ordinary wonders.



In The Book of Delights , one of today's most original literary voices offers up a genre-defying volume of lyric essays written over one tumultuous year. The first nonfiction book from award-winning poet Ross Gay is a record of the small joys we often overlook in our busy lives. Among Gay's funny, poetic, philosophical delights: a friend's unabashed use of air quotes, cradling a tomato seedling aboard an airplane, the silent nod of acknowledgment between the only two black people in a room. But Gay never dismisses the complexities, even the terrors, of living in America as a black man or the ecological and psychic violence of our consumer culture or the loss of those he loves. More than anything else, though, Gay celebrates the beauty of the natural world-his garden, the flowers peeking out of the sidewalk, the hypnotic movements of a praying mantis.



The Book of Delights is about our shared bonds, and the rewards that come from a life closely observed. These remarkable pieces serve as a powerful and necessary reminder that we can, and should, stake out a space in our lives for delight.
Table of Contents
Prefacep. xi
1My Birthday, Kindap. 1
2Inefficiencyp. 4
3Flower in the Curbp. 8
4Blowing It Offp. 10
5Hole in the Headp. 14
6Remission Stillp. 17
7Praying Mantisp. 20
8The Negreetingp. 23
9The High-Five from Strangers, Etc.p. 27
10Writing by Handp. 31
11Transplantingp. 34
12Nicknamesp. 38
13But, Maybe ...p. 41
14"Joy Is Such a Human Madness"p. 43
15House Partyp. 51
16Hummingbirdp. 55
17Just a Dreamp. 57
18"That's Some Bambi Shit" ...p. 61
19The Irrepressible: The Gratitudesp. 63
20Tap Tapp. 66
21Coffee without the Saucerp. 68
22Lily on the Pantsp. 70
23Sharing a Bagp. 72
24Umbrella in the Cafép. 74
25Beast Modep. 77
26Airplane Ritualsp. 79
27Weirdly Untitledp. 82
28Pecansp. 85
29The Do-Overp. 88
30Infinityp. 91
31Ghostp. 94
32Nota Benep. 98
33"Love Me in a Special Way"p. 101
34"Stay," by Lisa Loebp. 104
35Stacking Delightsp. 107
36Donny Hathaway on Pandorap. 111
37"To Spread the Sweetness of Love"p. 113
38Baby, Baby, Babyp. 116
39"REPENT OR BURN"p. 118
40Giving My Body to the Causep. 120
41Among the Rewards of My Sloth ...p. 122
42Not Grumpy Catp. 124
43Some Stupid Shitp. 126
44Not Only ...p. 128
45Micro-gentrification: WE BUY GOLDp. 129
46Reading Palmsp. 131
47The Sanctity of Trainsp. 134
48Bird Feedingp. 136
49Kombucha in a Mid-century Glassp. 138
50Hickoriesp. 141
51Annoyed No Morep. 142
52Totop. 144
53Church Poetsp. 147
54Public Lying Downp. 148
55Babies. Seriously.p. 152
56"My Life, My Life, My Life, My Life in the Sunshine"p. 154
57Incorporationp. 155
58Botan Rice Candyp. 157
59Understoryp. 160
60"Joy Is Such a Human Madness": The Duff Between Usp. 162
61"It's just the Day I'm Having" ...p. 164
62The Purple Cornets of Springp. 165
63The Volunteerp. 167
64Fishing an Eyelash: Two or Three Cents on the Virtues of the Poetry Readingp. 169
65Found Thingsp. 172
66Found Things (2)p. 174
67Cuplickingp. 176
68Bobbleheadp. 178
69The Jenkyp. 181
70The Crow's Ablutionsp. 184
71Flowers in the Hands of Statuesp. 187
72An Abundance of Public Toiletsp. 189
73The Wave of Unfamiliarsp. 193
74Not for Nothingp. 195
75Bindweed ... Delight?p. 197
76Dickheadp. 200
77Ambiguous Signage Sometimesp. 202
78Heart to Heartp. 206
79Caution: Bees on Bridgep. 209
80Tomato on Boardp. 212
81Purple-Handedp. 215
82Name: Kayte Young; Phone Number: 555-867-5309p. 216
83Still Processingp. 219
84Firefliesp. 221
85My Scythe Jackp. 223
86Pawpaw Grovep. 225
87Loiteringp. 229
88Touchedp. 233
89Scatp. 236
90Get Thee to the Nutrient Cycle!p. 241
91Pulling Carrotsp. 244
92Filling the Framep. 246
93Reckless Air Quotesp. 247
94Judith Irene Gay, Aged Seventy-six Today!p. 249
95Rothko Backboardp. 251
96The Marfa Lightsp. 253
97The Carportp. 255
98My Garden (Book):p. 258
99Black Bumblebees!p. 262
100Grownp. 265
101Coco-babyp. 266
102My Birthdayp. 269
Acknowledgmentsp. 272
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